Sex toys are becoming more and more common in the modern world. Instead of being a taboo topic that people are afraid to speak about, using sex toys for intimacy between you and your partner or for your own pleasure has become a regular act worldwide.
Instead of being scared to talk about intimate subjects or sex in general, we should be more open about learning about other forms of intimacy we have been sheltered from in the past. Educating ourselves about other methods of pleasure is key to understanding people from different backgrounds and cultures.
Let’s see one of the most widely-used sex toys on the market today and how to safely use it.
What is a foxtail plug?
When shopping for sex toys, a foxtail plug is a typical product found in multiple stores online and in person. You can choose between various lengths and colours to suit your personal preference.
A foxtail is inserted into a person’s anus and has the foxtail attached to it, giving the appearance of a tail while worn.
Foxtail in BDSM role-playing
A foxtail plug is a sex toy usually associated with dominant and submissive relationships in the BDSM world. BDSM refers to bondage and discipline, dominant and submissive, sadism and masochism. This dating method involves having one person be dominant in the relationship and one person being submissive.
The domain in a BDSM relationship is the person in charge of the other partner. This partner calls the shots and is in charge of the sexual encounters. However, in a BDSM relationship, the partners will have open communication to talk about what is and is not allowed during intimate moments.
The submissive in a BDSM relationship submits to any requests made by the dominant person. Although these acts are agreed upon before the sexual act, the submissive must be utterly submissive during the intimate acts – as one can assume from the name. A submissive person may wear a foxtail plug for added pleasure by the wearer or dominant partner.
During BDSM role play, one or both partners will use sex toys to increase the pleasure of the relationship. Often, the dominant person will have the submissive use or wear sex toys during the sex acts, like wearing a foxtail, handcuffs, or restraints.
Why do people enjoy role-playing?
Suppose you wonder why people enjoy BDSM relationships. In that case, many scientific and research-backed facts show why these relationships can help improve pleasure, reduce stress, and boost communication between partners.
People who practice BDSM have a higher state of consciousness when dealing with other people, are more open to new experiences and have a more heightened sense of well-being.
Conclusion
If you are new to using sex toys or exploring a BDSM relationship, the entire world can seem overwhelming. However, by researching what sex toys you and your partner want for your intimate settings, you can choose what will suit you and your partner’s preferences. Some common BDSM options used in role-play scenarios include a foxtail plug, handcuffs, or a blindfold.